How to support a young driver as a parent or guardian

Help your young driver to insure themselves properly and understand the rules of the road.

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Supporting your young driver

Handing over the car keys to a young driver is a big moment that can come with equal parts joy and worry for a parent or guardian. While it’s your young person’s time to take the lead in buying a car, finding insurance, and learning to drive, some of the responsibility of this newfound independence might fall on your shoulders.

Supporting your young driver to get the right insurance from day one is key to their success out on the road. But with insurance requirements changing over time, it’s completely normal to feel unsure about how to help them.

That’s where we come in. To give you clear, up-to-date advice that helps you to get your young person to understand their legal responsibilities when they’re out on the road.

Make sure they're properly insured

Being properly insured from the start gives your young driver a solid foundation for safe, confident driving. Insurance requirements change over time, so what makes a young driver properly insured today might be a little bit different to what you remember or to how a more experienced driver might insure themselves.

It’s not just about finding the lowest price. It’s about making sure the policy genuinely reflects how the car is used and who is driving it, that their details are filled in honestly and they understand the legal responsibilities they’re taking on.

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Five people walking together down a ramp in an urban area.

Common pitfalls to avoid when supporting a young driver

Some of the biggest problems can come from making assumptions. Here are a few things to consider and watch out for while you’re on this journey with your young driver.

Don’t underestimate the importance of proper insurance at each stage

Begin with learner driver insurance and make sure to update the policy to full driving insurance as soon as they have passed their test.

Don’t assume they're insured to Drive Other Cars (DOC)

Someone can only drive another person’s car under DOC if it is explicitly allowed within their policy. DOC doesn’t apply to people you live with, so if you wish to drive your young person’s car, you’ll need to be a named driver.

Consider the insurance group of your vehicle

If you or your young driver buy a car, consider which insurance group it falls into and if it has been modified by a previous owner. Both of these factors will impact policy cost. 

Don’t fall victim to a ghost broker

This is someone who sells fake or invalid policies, often on social media or via messaging apps at unrealistically low prices. Make sure your young person buys their insurance from a reputable source.

Consider if to choose a manual or automatic

The difference between a manual or an automatic transmission can affect the cost of an insurance premium. Additionally, if they learn and pass their test in an automatic, they won’t be able to drive a manual car without passing a second driving test.

Find out about other common insurance misconceptions that might be relevant to your young person’s driving experience.

Further advice

You don’t have to figure everything out on your own. There are several reliable, up-to-date resources designed to help parents support young drivers with confidence.

Guidance

GOV.UK

Start with official guidance from GOV.UK, which covers everything from learning to drive and licence rules to legal requirements and updates.

Guidance

The Highway Code

The Highway Code is also essential reading, offering the latest rules and best practices for driving responsibly.

Resources

Safe Driving for Life

Safe Driving for Life offers lots of different resources aimed at both young drivers and supporting adults.

Advice

Local programmes and resources

Look for local services running road safety programmes and resources tailored to new drivers and their families.

Advice

Talking about responsible driving

Talking openly about speed limits, distractions and responsible driving will help to build good habits early.

Frequently asked questions about supporting a young driver

There are several legitimate ways to bring costs down: 

  • Choosing a car from a lower insurance group 

  • Buying the insurance premium at least 26 days ahead of when cover is needed 

  • Adding an experienced named driver 

  • Opting for a higher voluntary excess 

  • Consider a telematics (black box) policy that rewards safe driving with lower premiums over time. 

  • Avoiding cosmetic or performance-based modifications  

  • Registering on the electoral roll 

Yes, absolutely. Insurance policies must reflect who the main driver is, where they live and where the car is primarily kept when not in use. 

If your young driver has moved out, their address and usage details should be updated straight away or they could invalidate the policy.

Only if you genuinely are the main driver. Listing yourself – or anyone else - as the main driver when your child uses the car most of the time is known as fronting, and it’s considered insurance fraud. It can lead to policies being cancelled, claims rejected, and difficulty getting insured in the future. 

Yes, as long as they are legally insured to do so. Your young person must either be added to your existing policy as a named driver or have their own policy covering that vehicle. They must also hold the correct licence for their level of driving, for example a provisional licence with supervision, or a full licence if they’ve passed their test. Always check the policy terms carefully before handing over the keys.